When I was a lad pornography consumption was minimal. Hard to get hold of, definitely illicit, and rarely more than disintegrated rags of mags left in obscure outdoor hiding places by older lads. Nowadays pornography is freely available online with a few clicks. This has meant an enormous increase in the amount of pornography consumed by men, young and old alike. Worryingly, recent studies have shown enough correlation between pornography consumption and erectile dysfunction to suggest causation. Normal behaviour amongst those who consume pornography on a daily basis results in the pursuit of harder and harder material to maintain arousal. A critical stage is eventually reached where sexual arousal becomes associated with extreme and fast paced sexual activity. The knock-on effect of this is to render the actual physical experience of sex bland and uninteresting. Luckily the solution is simple but it does require a great deal of patience. Sadly, for those who enjoy their daily barclays, you must knock both the pornography and the masturbation on the head. Even more sadly, during the early stages of this "reboot" process you may experience a lowering of your sex drive and possibly even some depression too. This can last for anywhere from 30 days to six months. So, steel yourself for the long haul, and be pleased when your sex drive returns after only 30 days or hopefully not much more. And when you can become aroused with a simple lingering kiss on the lips, you will gladly thank yourself for your relatively short abstinence and your sexual partners will gladly thank you too!
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